Drummer Ken Bedene has broken his silence regarding his recent and unexpected exit from the death metal band Aborted, explaining the circumstances that led to his departure after more than 15 years. His statement follows the band’s brief announcement that Bedene was out “effective immediately” and that former Benighted drummer Kévin Paradis would handle drumming duties for their upcoming European tour.
Aborted initially stated simply: “Effective immediately, Ken Bedene is no longer a member of Aborted. The upcoming European tour is going forward as planned with blast duties being handled by none other than Kevin Paradis.”
Now, Bedene has offered his perspective, taking responsibility for an online interaction while refuting alleged misinformation surrounding it. He began his statement by acknowledging the situation:
“Over the past two weeks, I have taken time to reflect on what’s been posted – knowing how important it is for me to address it. I never intended to make anyone uncomfortable, and I am truly sorry.”
He clarified the core issue, stating:
“The bottom line is: I had a consensual and reciprocated conversation online with someone of consenting age in her state. While legal, I understand it never should have happened.”
Bedene expressed dismay at how the situation evolved and addressed claims about his character:
“Those who know me are rightly surprised at the situation and the extensive misinformation out there. I’ve always carried myself with respect for others. Consent is something I take seriously, and I would never knowingly cross that line.” He added, “I’m horrified by the false claims about the conversation and about my character. Though this was a private conversation, and the falsification of events surrounding it is defamatory, I will not continue the rhetoric by sharing ‘my side.’ My focus right now is acknowledging my part and learning from it.”
The drummer also spoke about the impact on his family, referencing his open relationship with his wife:
“As a husband and father, seeing my family so negatively affected by something they did not do has been brutal. Though my wife has already shared that we have an open relationship, I am truly sorry to her for the inappropriate attention she’s received as a result of my actions. She’s my best friend, and I have the utmost respect for her and the life we’ve built together. She’s stood by me through everything, and she doesn’t deserve the harassment.”
Ultimately, Bedene stated his decision to leave Aborted was made to shield his bandmates:
“My departure from Aborted is intended to protect the people and the community I’ve cared about and created music with for more than 15 years. I left the band to distance them from this. They had no part in my communications, and they shouldn’t have to carry the weight of them.”
He concluded by outlining his immediate future plans:
“Going forward, I am taking a step back to help my family heal and to reflect. Thank you.”
Ken Bedene made his debut with Aborted on their seventh album, Global Flatline, released in 2012. During his time, he contributed to five more of the band’s albums, culminating in his final appearance on Vault of Horrors, released in 2024.
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